different kinds of aftercare.
- Just holding your sub
- Giving them a bath
- A massage
- Using soothing lotions on bruises/marks
- A short nap with your sub.
- Petting/soothing with words. (i.e. good girl/good boy/ you did so well)
- Giving a treat (warm milk/tea/some goldfish, etc)
- Brushing their hair
- Watching a movie of your sub’s choice
- Reading a book to them
- Kissing their marks/bruises/wounds
- Letting them know they’re safe
- Wrapping them in their favorite blanket with their favorite stuffed animal
Be responsible. Play responsibly. Treat your property well and it will last longer.
found this gem in the 1996 Cornell Women’s Handbook. it’s what to say when a guy tries to get out of using a condom
As a 20 week pregnant subbie, I can confidently say from experience that yes, it does indeed only take once. :P
Because that one. time. we ran out of condoms.
Fortunately, I am committed (married in my case) and madly in love with my Master. It was a shock but we’re financially stable and very happy so it wasn’t earth shattering. But man, seriously, pregnancy blows. (For the record, I love my baby. I just hate being pregnant.)
Unless you are ready for it, just don’t risk it.
Be responsible. Play responsibly.
One of my favorite positions. Mmmmmm….